1 He heard the words of Laban’s sons, saying, “Jacob has taken away all that was our father’s. From that which was our father’s, has he gotten all this wealth.” 2 Jacob saw the expression on Laban’s face, and, behold, it was not toward him as before. 3 Yahweh said to Jacob, “Return to the land of your fathers, and to your relatives, and I will be with you.”
4 Jacob sent and called Rachel and Leah to the field to his flock, 5 and said to them, “I see the expression on your father’s face, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father has been with me. 6 You know that I have served your father with all of my strength. 7 Your father has deceived me, and changed my wages ten times, but God didn’t allow him to hurt me. 8 If he said this, ‘The speckled will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore speckled. If he said this, ‘The streaked will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore streaked. 9 Thus God has taken away your father’s livestock, and given them to me. 10 During mating season, I lifted up my eyes, and saw in a dream, and behold, the male goats which leaped on the flock were streaked, speckled, and grizzled. 11 The angel of God said to me in the dream, ‘Jacob,’ and I said, ‘Here I am.’ 12 He said, ‘Now lift up your eyes, and behold, all the male goats which leap on the flock are streaked, speckled, and grizzled, for I have seen all that Laban does to you. 13 I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed a pillar, where you vowed a vow to me. Now arise, get out from this land, and return to the land of your birth.'”
14 Rachel and Leah answered him, “Is there yet any portion or inheritance for us in our father’s house? 15 Aren’t we accounted by him as foreigners? For he has sold us, and has also quite devoured our money. 16 For all the riches which God has taken away from our father, that is ours and our children’s. Now then, whatever God has said to you, do.”
17 Then Jacob rose up, and set his sons and his wives on the camels, 18 and he took away all his livestock, and all his possessions which he had gathered, including the livestock which he had gained in Paddan Aram, to go to Isaac his father, to the land of Canaan. 19 Now Laban had gone to shear his sheep: and Rachel stole the teraphim * that were her father’s. 20 Jacob deceived Laban the Syrian, in that he didn’t tell him that he was running away. 21 So he fled with all that he had. He rose up, passed over the River, and set his face toward the mountain of Gilead.
22 Laban was told on the third day that Jacob had fled. 23 He took his relatives with him, and pursued him seven days’ journey. He overtook him in the mountain of Gilead. 24 God came to Laban, the Syrian, in a dream of the night, and said to him, “Be careful that you don’t speak to Jacob either good or bad.”
25 Laban caught up with Jacob. Now Jacob had pitched his tent in the mountain, and Laban with his relatives encamped in the mountain of Gilead. 26 Laban said to Jacob, “What have you done, that you have deceived me, and carried away my daughters like captives of the sword? 27 Why did you flee secretly, and deceive me, and didn’t tell me, that I might have sent you away with mirth and with songs, with tambourine and with harp; 28 and didn’t allow me to kiss my sons and my daughters? Now have you done foolishly. 29 It is in the power of my hand to hurt you, but the God of your father spoke to me last night, saying, ‘Be careful that you don’t speak to Jacob either good or bad.’ 30 Now, you want to be gone, because you greatly longed for your father’s house, but why have you stolen my gods?”
31 Jacob answered Laban, “Because I was afraid, for I said, ‘Lest you should take your daughters from me by force.’ 32 Anyone you find your gods with shall not live. Before our relatives, discern what is yours with me, and take it.” For Jacob didn’t know that Rachel had stolen them.
33 Laban went into Jacob’s tent, into Leah’s tent, and into the tent of the two female servants; but he didn’t find them. He went out of Leah’s tent, and entered into Rachel’s tent. 34 Now Rachel had taken the teraphim,† put them in the camel’s saddle, and sat on them. Laban felt around all the tent, but didn’t find them. 35 She said to her father, “Don’t let my lord be angry that I can’t rise up before you; for I’m having my period.” He searched, but didn’t find the teraphim.
36 Jacob was angry, and argued with Laban. Jacob answered Laban, “What is my trespass? What is my sin, that you have hotly pursued me? 37 Now that you have felt around in all my stuff, what have you found of all your household stuff? Set it here before my relatives and your relatives, that they may judge between us two.
38 “These twenty years I have been with you. Your ewes and your female goats have not cast their young, and I haven’t eaten the rams of your flocks. 39 That which was torn of animals, I didn’t bring to you. I bore its loss. Of my hand you required it, whether stolen by day or stolen by night. 40 This was my situation: in the day the drought consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep fled from my eyes. 41 These twenty years I have been in your house. I served you fourteen years for your two daughters, and six years for your flock, and you have changed my wages ten times. 42 Unless the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely now you would have sent me away empty. God has seen my affliction and the labor of my hands, and rebuked you last night.”
43 Laban answered Jacob, “The daughters are my daughters, the children are my children, the flocks are my flocks, and all that you see is mine: and what can I do today to these my daughters, or to their children whom they have borne?44 Now come, let us make a covenant, you and I; and let it be for a witness between me and you.”
45 Jacob took a stone, and set it up for a pillar. 46 Jacob said to his relatives, “Gather stones.” They took stones, and made a heap. They ate there by the heap. 47 Laban called it Jegar Sahadutha,‡ but Jacob called it Galeed.§ 48 Laban said, “This heap is witness between me and you today.” Therefore it was named Galeed 49 and Mizpah, for he said, “Yahweh watch between me and you, when we are absent one from another. 50 If you afflict my daughters, or if you take wives besides my daughters, no man is with us; behold, God is witness between me and you.”
51 Laban said to Jacob, “See this heap, and see the pillar, which I have set between me and you. 52 May this heap be a witness, and the pillar be a witness, that I will not pass over this heap to you, and that you will not pass over this heap and this pillar to me, for harm. 53 The God of Abraham, and the God of Nahor, the God of their father, judge between us.” Then Jacob swore by the fear of his father, Isaac. 54 Jacob offered a sacrifice in the mountain, and called his relatives to eat bread. They ate bread, and stayed all night in the mountain. 55 Early in the morning, Laban rose up, and kissed his sons and his daughters, and blessed them. Laban departed and returned to his place.
Thoughts for the Day
Today is a day like any other day, your working hard lying cheating and stealing just to stay in business, then you find that your best employee quit! Since he does business just like you do, he quit three days ago without giving notice, takes a big chunk of the inventory and your daughters with him. What do you do? Laban experienced exactly this today. Remember in the last chapter, Laban gave the offspring that had spots and streaks to Jacob, and Laban got the others. Though Jacob was manipulating the flock, the offspring were contractually his. The problem occurred when Laban’s sons figured out that Laban’s flock was suffering and growing smaller due to Jacob essentially keeping the stronger critters in his flock and placing the weaker in Laban’s flock. When Laban realized he was getting the short end of the stick, and Jacob had been purposefully altering the breeding, he was not happy, and was not thinking pleasant thoughts toward Jacob. I do not however think he had malice on his mind like Esau did, but getting even was certainly an option on the table, and Laban had the cunning ability to do it.
God saw that Jacob had been taken advantage of many times, and though Jacob did not play straight, he blessed Jacob. Now, it was time to go home to Isaac’s location, so God told Jacob to take his flocks, wives and kids, then get on the way. When Jacob told Rachel and Leah it was time to go, they had no issue with leaving, as their Dad had been not been dealing straight with Jacob or them for years. Dad, had put his selfish interest ahead of his family for years to build his empire. They gathered their things, plus Rachel snagged Jacobs idols and they hit the trail.
Laban, though he made deals with Jacob for wages, had a different idea of what belonged to him and what belonged to Jacob. Though Jacob had three days head start, Laban mounted a posse and headed out to take back what was his. Considering Laban worshiped Idols, it would be my guess that he did not have regular communion with the God of the Bible. In spite of his not dealing with God, God spoke to Laban and told Laban to not speak good nor bad to Jacob about this matter. Fortunately, Laban feared God, and kept his anger to a simmer. God directly intervenes and keeps these men from killing each other. Instead, Laban shows he loves his daughters by having Jacob agree that he will be true to them, and protect them from harm. The chapter ends with them setting up a treaty marked by a stack of rocks. Would Laban have killed Rachel had he found the Idols? How would things have been different had Jacob been forthright in keeping the flocks? Would God have preserved Jacob if he had given Laban notice that he planned to terminate his employment? Would God have blessed Jacob in spite of Laban’s irrational belief that he owned the girls and the flocks he had given Jacob as wages? Why is it that the patriarchs, always chose to lie or cheat, when the going got tough; and God was driving the bus? How do we act when we need to do what is right, in a difficult situation that a simple lie might help us avoid?
Regardless of how you might answer these questions, have a wonderful day, and remember God is all-powerful each time you make a decision.